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There’s no news this week on our adoption of “Valentine” (the 10-year-old orphan from Eastern Europe that we hosted last summer).  I’ve put together a themed post on seven things that are working for us right now as I homeschool Peter for grade 7 and Simon for kindergarten.  Homeschooling this year is going quite well; I wrote a post last May about why this would be the best year of homeschooling yet and it has been mostly accurate.  I now present to you some of what’s working for us–many items having to do with scheduling and staying organized and others just about things we do.

Together time.  This is a short period that Peter, Simon, and I do all together; I described it in my homeschool curriculum overview post for this year.  In short, we sing, we pray, and we read a Bible story, a poem, and a French comptine (like a nursery rhyme).  We’ve moved it from the morning to the afternoon, when Clara’s napping, because that works better for us now that Peter’s home all day and Clara doesn’t nap in the mornings anymore.

Read-aloud.  While technically I am just doing read-aloud with Simon, most of the time Peter joins us.  The draw of listening to captivating stories is just too strong for him to resist.  It means it takes Peter longer to finish his own work, but there’s something so cozy and wholesome about having both boys on the couch with me listening in rapt attention as I read aloud that I just can’t discourage Peter from joining us.  I read the same books to Peter seven years ago when he was in kindergarten, but he doesn’t remember many of them.

Morning break.  Starting in the second semester, we are now taking a morning break at 10 am for approximately 15 minutes.  This was a difficult decision for me.  Our homeschool day is supposed to start at 9 am with Peter’s saxophone practice, although it’s often closer to 9:30 by the time we hear the first notes.  Why stop for a break when we’ve only just started our homeschool day?  Looking at the big picture, though, we’ve already done a lot of work.  Just getting myself and three kids up, and fed, and breakfast cleaned up, and vitamins taken, and all of us dressed, and clothes picked up, and Clara’s diaper changed, and hair combed, and teeth brushed, and the cat fed, and the humidifier filled, and the pellet stove cleaned and lit, and the floor swept, and the dishwasher unloaded, and and and…yeah, we kind of do need a break already even though it feels like we’ve only just begun our day (or at least *I* need a break–the reality is that unless I’m constantly cheerleading and reminding the boys what they’re supposed to be doing, they don’t get much done).  When 10 am hits, we either sing or have Alexa play some fun music and we dance, then we have a snack.  It gives us a little mood boost with happy music and a bit of exercise, which is often helpful for me in resetting my attitude after the effort of getting everyone up and ready.

Memory folders.  I saw this idea online and decided to implement it when we started our second semester.  Folders contain index cards with items to be memorized such as  vocabulary words, French verb conjugations, math formulas, etc.  I also include Simon’s Little Stories for Little Folks booklets (for his reading program).  I’m planning to add poetry to memorize but haven’t gotten there yet.  Each day, we pull out three folders–daily, odd or even, and the day of the week– and review their contents.  New material starts in the daily folder, and as it becomes learned, it gets moved progressively back so it is reviewed less frequently until it is retired.  Some people also do numbered folders for the days of the month, but I didn’t feel a need to go that far.

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Our folders.  The blue ones are Simon’s, the red ones are Peter’s, and the yellow ones are waiting for “Valentine” to come home.

Flexible, by-subject scheduling.  This was one of my biggest improvements this year over how I approached homeschooling in the past.  I used to make big spreadsheets with each assignment for each subject for each day for a week at a time.  Then, as soon as life happened and Peter fell behind, things would get into a mess.  This year, I made a list of subjects for each kid and posted the list on our fridge.  Simon’s list is divided into “couch work” and “table work” (mainly as a reminder for me when I’m pulling out work to do with him), while Peter’s list has some rotations on it (for example, “current events/logic” means that he alternates between doing current events one day and logic the next day).  For each individual subject, Peter has an undated schedule of assignments.  When he gets to that subject, he does the next assignment on the list.  After I check his work, I initial and date the box next to that assignment.  If he misses a subject one day for whatever reason, he just picks up with the next assignment the next day.  Some of our curriculum resources came with schedules that I’ve been able to use, while for other subjects I had to invest some time in typing out schedules at the beginning of the year.

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A schedule made by the curriculum provider, which I slightly adapted.

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A schedule that I typed up myself.  The X’s indicate that there’s a video to watch.

A fixed order for Peter’s subjects.  There are some things I’m not uptight about.  When I was a high school teacher, I wasn’t one of those teachers who insisted that assignments had to be written in blue or black pen.  I told my students I didn’t care what they wrote with, as long as I could read it.  It didn’t bother me when students wrote in fluorescent orange gel pen–at least they were doing their work, which was an accomplishment in and of itself at the inner-city school where I taught in Detroit.  Likewise, having a fixed order for tackling the various subjects didn’t seem important to me; as long as the work got done, it didn’t matter to me whether math was done before or after history.  Although I sometimes suggested working on certain things based on circumstances (practice saxophone before Clara takes her nap, do writing now because I’m free and we need to go over it together), I left it up to Peter to decide what to work on when.  Often, he would get stuck during the transition from one subject to another, not able to make a decision about what to work on next.  I decided to eliminate that wasted time and mental energy by giving him a fixed order for his subjects when we started our second semester.  I considered which subjects were more and less important, putting the more important ones earlier to make sure they got done.  I also thought about which subjects were more and less challenging for him and tried to balance the schedule so he wouldn’t have two difficult subjects in a row.  I scheduled saxophone practice first thing in the morning and designated a quiet reading period for both boys after lunch, so they wouldn’t be disruptive while I was trying to get Clara down for her nap.  Now that Peter has a predictable routine and just has to move on to the next subject on the list when he finishes an assignment, his days are flowing more smoothly.

4:30 deadline.  Another schedule tweak I made for the second semester was introducing a 4:30 cut-off time for schoolwork (mainly for Peter).  If there’s nothing unusual going on and he works diligently, he should finish all his work before then.  On days with regular schedule changes (swimming lessons or ice skating), there are certain subjects that he gets to skip to lighten his load (they’re marked with an asterisk on his subject list).  However, sometimes one or more assignments take an exceptionally long time to complete, our schedule is disrupted by something irregular, or he’s just plain not focused on his work.  Once 4:30 hits, he can stop working on his schoolwork.  Unless I deem that the circumstances were entirely out of his control, he doesn’t get electronic privileges (tv/computer/Wii time), but he isn’t forced to keep his nose to the grindstone when he’s tired from the day and generally not all that productive anyhow.  He can choose to continue working and he gets electronic privileges if he finishes (which he often does).  To me, this offers some balance.  Yes, it’s important to finish your work, but everyone has rough days now and then.  Sometimes you need to take a break before you can get back to being productive.  If he were abusing this and slacking off all the time, I would reconsider it.  However, most of the time he finishes all his work, and even the days that he doesn’t, he usually gets pretty close.

Well, I’ve totally failed at the “quick” part of 7 Quick Takes again.  You can head over to This Ain’t the Lyceum to see if any other bloggers managed to do a better job than I did.

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7 Quick Takes #58

Welcome to another edition of 7 Quick Takes, in which I discuss the Olympics, the beginning of Lent, and the latest in our journey to adopt “Valentine” (the 10-year-old boy from Eastern Europe that we hosted last summer).

  1.  Watching the Olympics is a chance for me to be amazed by the things that human beings can do.  I don’t have enough interest in most sports to watch them regularly, but every four years I can be impressed by the skill of the world’s best skiers, skaters, sliders, etc.  When I watch these elite athletes, I often wish I could be in their body for one event so I could feel what it feels like to slide down a track of ice at 100 km/h in control or do flips on skis or land a triple axel (all things I will never do).  Years ago, I did short-track speed skating, and I miss it.  I had nowhere the amount of skill that world-class athletes have, but I loved the feeling of flying around the rink on my skates.  I can only imagine how incredible it would feel to be an Olympic athlete, at the height of what is possible.
  2.  We feasted for Mardi Gras.  We had pancakes and paczki, two traditional Fat Tuesday foods.  I was nostalgic when I thought about all the pancakes that were being made that day by parent volunteers in Catholic schools across the province of Ontario (where I used to teach).  I recalled the traditional prune and rosehip flavored paczki from a Polish specialty shop that one of my fellow teachers brought in to share on my last Mardi Gras before we moved here; I prefer the Americanized strawberry-filled ones.  In addition to our breakfast-for-dinner, I broke out the heart-shaped Ding-Dongs a day early to round out our junk food feast.
  3.  We had a busy morning on Wednesday.  I haven’t verified this, but I saw online that it was the first time since 1946 that Ash Wednesday and Valentine’s Day fell on the same day.  On top of that, it was Michigan’s spring count day (which determines public school funding based on enrollment).  We went to 9 am Mass, then to the local school district’s homeschool partnership program center so that Peter and Simon could be counted, then to the library.  We skipped ice skating because I figured that was enough activity for one morning.
  4.  Maybe I should stop hoping to ever get things done so I can stop being disappointed when it doesn’t happen.  Since Wednesday morning was so busy and I have so many things to do that I never get to, I thought I would give the boys the day off lessons and let them watch a movie or two in the afternoon so I could get some things done.  Alas, Clara fell asleep on the ride home from the library and foiled my plans.  Not only did I have to make and eat lunch while she slept (not the most productive use of nap time), but she feel asleep earlier than usual and took a shorter than usual nap, so she was up before 2 pm.  So much for my “free” time.  Plus, a certain child who shall not be named managed to drag out the very minimal work I required of him until almost 4 pm, making both of us miserable in the process.  This afternoon, the boys are going snow-tubing with the homeschool partnership program.  Maybe, just maybe, Clara will take a good nap while they’re gone so that I can get her Canadian passport application completed (we got her passport pictures taken while we were in Canada for Christmas), work on the photo book we need to bring to Valentine’s country, and/or do a number of other important things that keep getting pushed to the back burner.
  5.  I’m trying to keep it simple this Lenten season.  Last year, I put considerable effort into preparing for Lent.  I’m glad that I did and that I kept good notes so I didn’t have to put much work into prepping this year, because I just don’t have the time and energy for it right now.  For the boys, we’re doing the Lenten calendars and Holy Heroes Lenten Adventure again, and again there will be no playing on the Wii except on Sundays.  For myself, I could think of many things that would be beneficial, but I didn’t want to stress myself out with too many sacrifices.  Ultimately, I decided on reasonable efforts in the three Lenten disciplines of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving.  For prayer, the boys and I will pray the Angelus during our homeschool “together time”; it seems like an intermediate step between our usual prayer and saying a decade of the rosary, which I’m not sure they’re ready for.  For fasting, I will do what I did last year and limit myself to one sweet thing per day, usually a square of a chocolate bar.  (This still takes self-discipline, but it’s not as daunting as completely giving up sweets.)  As for almsgiving, we will participate in our church’s weekly soup and bread meals that raise money for local charities, plus I figure our adoption kind of counts.  All in all, I think my plans for this year are do-able, and perhaps I’ll be up to observing Lent more rigorously in the future.
  6.  Over the last couple weeks, we’ve made important connections with other adopting families.  We’re now in touch with two other families adopting from the city where Valentine lives; one family leaves today for their first trip and the other leaves soon for their final trip, to bring their newly adopted children home.  It’s helpful for us to learn about their experiences before we travel so we can be better prepared.  Also, another family from the Upper Peninsula has just started the process of adopting from Valentine’s country; I talked with the mom on the phone and shared some of our experiences with her.  According to Wikipedia, the population of the UP at the 2010 census was a little over 311,000 (just over 3% of the population of the state of Michigan), so it’s a pleasant surprise to have another UP family adopting from the same country at the same time.  These connections with other adopting families are a way to give and receive practical help as well as moral support.
  7.  We have received five new Hearts for Valentine photos since last week!  Our Reece’s Rainbow Family Sponsorship Program account is now up to $3698.  As we wait to be invited to Valentine’s country to receive an official referral, it’s reassuring to see some of the money we will need for our travel expenses coming in.  It warms my heart to see the photos people have sent for Valentine–pictures of themselves, their children, their grandchildren, their pets, and one of a baby blanket.  If you haven’t sent a photo yet, please do!

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7 Quick Takes #57

This week’s topics: birthdays, good and bad news relating to our adoption of “Valentine” (the 10-year-old boy from Eastern Europe we hosted last summer), my housecleaning failure, and eyes.

  1.  Peter and Simon both celebrated their birthdays in the past week.  Peter is now a teenager.  He chose homemade chicken pot pie for his birthday dinner and chocolate pie for dessert.  His gifts included a Dungeons and Dragons 2nd edition Dungeon Master’s Guide (the edition is critical–we unwittingly bought him the 5th edition for Christmas and got an earful as a result).  Simon is now six.  He chose chicken and dumplings for his birthday meal and for dessert, galette des rois.  His gifts included a gumball machine, Legos (as if we need any more in this house), and light-up balloons.  It’s hectic celebrating two birthdays in the same week, but now we have a break until April, when we will celebrate Valentine’s birthday in absentia.IMG_0681 small
  2.  We inaugurated our “special plate.”  I read Kendra Tierney’s blog post about how each of her children is special three days a year and admired her red plate, but got sticker shock when I looked at buying one.  I checked out Etsy for alternatives and found a few, but those were also somewhat pricy.  Then I realized that some of the Etsy sellers were decorating their plates with oil-based Sharpies and was inspired to try decorating my own plate, figuring I could do just as good a job myself.  Even though I had to buy two plates because the first one chipped when I dropped it in the sink while washing it, the cost of the two plates and a package of oil-based Sharpies was less than I would have spent to buy a decorated plate (and it was helpful to practice on the chipped plate before decorating the real one).  I’m pleased with the result and I hope that this plate will make birthdays more special.IMG_0650 small
  3.  I tried having a “housecleaning day” on Wednesday and it was a failure.  I thought it would be a great idea to designate one day a month to doing some of the housecleaning chores that don’t get done quite regularly enough.  I figured that housecleaning is a life skill and it would be worth giving the boys a morning off of academic lessons so they could help get these chores done and we could live in a somewhat cleaner house.  I made a list that seemed reasonable, but turned out to be overly ambitious.  Instead of taking the morning off, we ended up taking the entire day off lessons and didn’t even finish my list.  Not only that, but because we focused on the lesser-done chores, the everyday chores were neglected.  I went to bed exhausted from cleaning and supervising all day, while the dishes and laundry remained piled up, mocking me and my efforts.  Clearly, a monthly housecleaning day is not the solution, so I need to go back to the drawing board.
  4.  I’ve been having many conversations about eyes with Clara.  “Eyes” is one of her favorite words right now, so she frequently points out eyes in pictures (including the wall decal animals in her bedroom), on stuffed animals, and on members of our family.  Then we move on to discuss noses, ears, etc.  These conversations help Clara develop her language skills, but I’m getting tired of talking about eyes dozens of times a day.IMG_0659 trimmed
  5.  The news from Valentine’s country is not good.  He lives in a region that has experienced violent conflicts.  It’s been more or less stable for the last couple years, but in the past week or so, it seems that tensions have been escalating.  (To protect his privacy, I’m deliberately not providing details.)  Please pray for the safety of the residents of his region and that this won’t impede our adoption (in the past, his country has halted referrals of children from his region when conflict was ongoing.)  Valentine’s country has suffered greatly from this conflict and we are discouraged and stressed to hear the recent news.
  6.  We have reason to be hopeful that we’ll be traveling soon.  The two families whose dossiers were submitted by our facilitation team before ours have just received their travel dates, so we’re next.  While the average wait to receive an invitation to travel over the past several months has been about a month and a half, they received their dates in just over three weeks.  The average time from receiving dates until actually traveling has been about three weeks, but one of the families has an appointment in just under two weeks and the other is in less than three weeks.  We don’t know if the same will be true for us, but it’s possible that we may have our dates by the end of this month and be traveling in March, when we were expecting to get dates in mid-March and travel in April.  The sooner we travel, the sooner we get to see Valentine again, and hopefully the sooner he will come home!
  7.  With Valentine’s Day approaching, please share our Hearts for Valentine page.  We would be grateful if you would share on Facebook or other social media.  Please encourage your friends and family to donate to our (US tax-deductible) Reece’s Rainbow Family Sponsorship Program account and send us cute pictures of their kids and/or their Valentine’s Day artwork (or themselves and/or their Valentine’s Day art!) for the poster I’m going to make for Valentine’s bedroom.  We haven’t gotten many photos yet and I’m hoping that Valentine’s Day will inspire more participation.  Thank you for helping us by sharing Hearts for Valentine!

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7 Quick Takes #56

In this edition: More good news on our adoption of “Valentine” (not his real name), the 10-year-old boy that we hosted last summer!  I’m about to enter a new phase of my life, which will last for an almost impossibly long time.  Also, it’s cold outside.

  1.  Our dossier has been submitted to the government of Valentine’s country!  It arrived in his country on Saturday, but needed to be translated and legalized before it could be submitted.  We were waiting on pins and needles all week to hear that it was submitted in time because our medical documents expire on Saturday (all documents have to be less than six months old when they are submitted).  By Thursday evening, I was bracing myself for the bad news.  What a relief when we learned that our dossier was submitted on Thursday!
  2.  Now we wait some more.  Assuming that all of our documents are acceptable (and both our facilitators and I have been over them with a fine-toothed comb), we will receive an invitation to travel to Valentine’s country.  Based on the recent experiences of other families, we can expect to be notified in about a month and a half and then travel about three weeks after that.  When we travel, we will get the information from Valentine’s file, meet him again, and–assuming that he agrees to the adoption–officially accept the referral and file paperwork to request a court date.
  3.  I was missing Valentine this week.  Don was drinking a café au lait and I started singing “café au lait” to the tune of the “olé olé” part of the song “Hot Hot Hot.”  Simon didn’t know the song, so we had Alexa play it.  Then Simon got hooked on it, so we listened to and danced to “Hot Hot Hot” more times than I can count.  It reminded me of dancing the Macarena when Valentine was here.  I thought of how much fun he would have dancing with us to “Hot Hot Hot” and wished he were here.
  4.  Our Reece’s Rainbow Family Sponsorship Program account has had a nice jump!  $3455 has now been donated towards our adoption expenses.  If you’d like to contribute (it’s US tax-deductible), you can find our FSP page here.
  5.  In non-adoption-related news, our second semester of homeschooling is off to a great start.  I’m loving this not-having-to-leave-the-house-every-day deal (since I’m not driving Peter to school for band anymore), especially yesterday, when the wind chill was around -20 F  (-29 C) and there was blowing snow to assault our faces and reduce visibility.  On the whole, the new schedule I came up with offers a good balance between being getting work done and not getting stressed out.  We took advantage of our newfound scheduling flexibility to go to the library and go ice skating on Wednesday, and the boys will attend a Harry Potter-themed party sponsored by the homeschool partnership program this afternoon, after their swimming lessons.
  6.  At the moment, we’re all reasonably healthy.  This is a nice change from the previous two weeks.  Last week, first Peter and then Clara were sick, and Don was sick the week before (and we’re talking the kind of sick that requires unpleasant clean-up).  Clara was sick and miserable and clingy last Thursday and I got basically nothing done.  I had scheduled an NPR Day that day (a day off of homeschooling for No Particular Reason) so at least I didn’t have to feel bad about getting behind on schoolwork, but I was disappointed that I didn’t get to have the productive day getting other things done that I had been hoping to have.
  7.  Tomorrow, I enter a new phase of my life.  I will become the mother of a teenager, and I will continue to be the mother of at least one teenager until 2036.  Is that crazy or what?  I would have had a 5-day reprieve in 2025 between Peter turning 20 and Simon turning 13, but with Valentine added to the family, that won’t happen.

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7 Quick Takes #55

Our “paper pregnancy” has resulted in a “paper baby”!  Our international adoption dossier was completed on Tuesday, January 23, 2018 at about 2:50 pm and weighed 1 pound 11 ounces.  We proud parents quickly said good-bye and sent it off on a journey overseas.

  1.  Our USCIS approval finally arrived on Monday.  Although the approval was dated January 8th, we didn’t have it in hand until the 22nd.  Grrr.
  2.  This was the day after we learned that due to some changes in “Valentine’s” country, we needed more documents.  The last thing you want to hear when you’re about to send your dossier off (and especially with a deadline looming before some of your documents expire) is that you need more documents.  Fortunately, they weren’t too difficult to prepare.  We were able to get the five additional documents notarized and apostilled at the same time as the copy of the USCIS approval, so it didn’t delay us getting our dossier out.
  3.  We went on a trip to Marquette (the Upper Peninsula’s “big city”) on Tuesday to get our documents apostilled.  It was a two-hour drive each way on partially snow-covered roads, but it’s the only place in the UP where you can walk in and get documents apostilled.  If we mailed them to Lansing to be apostilled, it would take a couple weeks to get them back, and we didn’t have that kind of time.  After we got the apostilles, we went to the post office and express-mailed our dossier to a family in Illinois that is flying to Valentine’s country today; they will carry it over for us and deliver it to our adoption facilitation team.  While we were in town, we picked up some parts Don needed for our tractor, then went to an Italian restaurant where the food was only fair and they played the same cheesy song over and over and over again (I timed it–it was about 2 minutes and 40 seconds long.  I’m not sure how long we were there, but if we were there for an hour, we heard it 22 times.)

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    Outside the post office in Marquette, where we mailed our dossier.  36 documents in all.

  4.  Peter had his band concert on Wednesday.  I was proud to hear him play his saxophone in the seventh grade band.  It’s amazing how much improvement the students have made since last year.  After the concert, we celebrated Peter’s musical accomplishments with ice cream.  Now he is done with band for this school year.
  5.  We start our second semester of homeschooling next Monday.  I’m still trying to figure out a new schedule, now that I don’t have to drive Peter to school for band every day and now that he’ll be home in the afternoons.  We have a few changes on the academic side.  Peter is taking his online Great Books course (which he started last week) and will be studying informal logic.  Simon is starting spelling lessons (All About Spelling) now that he has finished the first level of Little Stories for Little Folks (his reading program).  He has also finished Little Folks Letter Practice and is starting his first actual handwriting book (Catholic Heritage Handwriting level K).
  6.  This little girl is now a year and a half old.  How time flies!IMG_8954 small
  7.  Our Reece’s Rainbow Family Sponsorship Program account hasn’t changed in weeks.  It’s stalled at $2970–I’m looking forward to seeing it pass $3000.  If you’d like to make a US-tax-deductible contribution towards our adoption expenses, you can do it here.

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7 Quick Takes #54

If you’re a regular reader, I’m sorry (disappointed, frustrated…) to report that we haven’t received our USCIS approval yet (details below).

If you’re not a regular reader, a little background: We are in the process of adopting “Valentine” (not his real name), a 10-year-old boy from Eastern Europe that we hosted last summer.  We are anxiously awaiting our approval from USCIS (US Citizenship and Immigration Services), which is the last thing we need to complete our dossier.  We need to get our dossier to Valentine’s country and submitted to his government by February 3rd or else some of our documents will expire.

  1.  We are still waiting for our USCIS approval to arrive.  Don called them last Friday afternoon and found out that although our officer had approved our application last Monday, it was still sitting on her supervisor’s desk, waiting for the final approval.  The holiday on Monday this week delayed it even more.  Don called yesterday and learned that it went out on Wednesday.  We should have it soon, but I don’t know yet when we’ll be able to get it to Valentine’s country.  Tune in next week to find out what happens.
  2.  Winter is hard.  It just takes more effort to get through a day in winter than in warmer weather.  I have to put more clothing on myself and my kids in order to go outside.  It takes time every morning to clean out and light the pellet stove in our living room.  Driving can be more stressful, depending on the road conditions and visibility.  Clearing the snow from the porch and the driveway is a chore.  Filling our multiple humidifiers with water is an extra daily task (though worth it to avoid the nosebleeds that Peter used to get from dry winter air).  Even something as simple as closing the garage door becomes a challenge in the winter–it usually takes several tries to get it to close all the way and stay closed.  I’ve said it before (though things are not so bad now that we’ve made some energy-efficiency improvements on our house) and I’ll say it again–our first winter here, Don accused me of not embracing winter.  It’s true.  I don’t embrace winter, I endure it.  There are many things I like about living in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, but the winters are hard.

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    This is how we clear our driveway.  I am so glad that we haven’t had any vehicles stuck in our driveway so far this winter.  Before we got the tractor, not only our cars would get stuck, but also the pick-up truck we used for plowing.

  3.  To make life somewhat easier, I’ve decided to take Peter out of band for the rest of this school year.  Ever since Clara went from two naps a day to one, the scheduling of dropping Peter off at school just hasn’t been working (of the four school days so far this week, there were two days that the only nap she got was 15-20 minutes in the car when we drove him to school, just long enough that she wouldn’t go back to sleep when we got home).  Her basic need for sleep is more important than Peter participating in band.  I made the decision over the Christmas break, but I’ve been putting up with it for the last few weeks so he could finish the first semester.  His band concert is next Wednesday and that will be his last day.  He will continue practicing at home and I am hopeful that he’ll be able to participate in band again next school year.
  4.  We’re giving online education a try.  Peter just started an “Intro to Great Books and Socratic Method” class aimed at 6th and 7th graders.  Each week includes a reading, a video lecture to watch, a comprehension assignment to be uploaded after completion, an online quiz, a study skills activity, and a 50-minute live class discussion  (and there’s a dress code for the video conference–he has to wear a shirt with a collar and sleeves).  After the first class meeting, he declared it was “fun.”  Thinking deeply about and discussing what he reads will be a valuable experience, and it’s helpful for him to be accountable for work to someone other than just mom.  It does mean adding something in to our schedule that requires him to be somewhere on time and prepared, but it’s only one day a week and I don’t have to drive him anywhere for it.

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    I was so impressed by the mountain of snow that dwarfed the school buses in the parking lot at Peter’s school that I took a picture.

  5.  You know your toddler is living life to the fullest when she poops blue glitter.   Clara is into everything these days.  I’ve taken to safety-pinning the zipper of her sleep sack closed because I was finding her after her naps with the zipper completely open and her socks pulled off (I’m not sure if she was doing it before or after she slept).  Her new favorite pastime is climbing on the table (over and over and over…).  I know this phase will pass, but having to supervise her constantly when she’s awake is exhausting.
  6.  I have been enjoying chocolate smoothies for breakfast.  Back in December, I did a “week of smoothies,” trying a new smoothie recipe for breakfast every morning for a week.  My favorite was a chocolate one, which I have since tweaked a bit.  I’ve been making it a couple mornings a week since.  It feels so indulgent to drink something chocolate for breakfast, yet it is super healthy.  If only I’d had this recipe when I was pregnant with Clara and craving chocolate milkshakes!  For easy reference, I wrote a separate post with the recipe here.  The boys have been clamoring for me to make other smoothies, but a cold smoothie isn’t the best winter breakfast.  I’ve promised them that I will experiment more when the weather warms up.
  7.  Finally, as usual, I will end with a reminder that we are very grateful for financial assistance with our adoption.  US tax-deductible donations can be made to our Reece’s Rainbow Family Sponsorship Program account, and I encourage anyone who donates to send me a picture for our Hearts for Valentine poster.

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Chocolate smoothie recipe

This recipe is slightly adapted from Minimalist Baker’s Creamy Chocolate Breakfast Shake recipe.  I’ve taken to calling it “chocolate smoothie” instead.  If you’re expecting a chocolate milkshake, you’ll be disappointed.  If you’re expecting a healthy chocolate-flavored vegan concoction with no added sugar, it’s amazingly good.

Ingredients:

  • 2 frozen ripe bananas, peeled and broken into thirds prior to freezing
  • 1/3 cup frozen strawberries and/or blueberries
  • 1 Tbsp flaxseed meal
  • 2 heaping Tbsp cocoa powder
  • 1 1/2 cups unsweetened almond milk
  • 2 Tbsp almond butter

Put all the ingredients into a blender and blend until smooth.

This makes enough for two people to share (or one adult and a couple kids).  The quantity probably depends on the size of your bananas; I measured it twice and got 22 ounces and 21 ounces, respectively.

Just for fun, I did some quick nutritional analysis.  The fiber content of all the ingredients added together is about 17 grams.  The sugar content is about 37 grams, and the total calories is about 570.  Thus, if you drank half of a blender, you would get about 8 1/2 grams of fiber, 18 1/2 grams of sugar, and 285 calories–along with lots of other great nutrients.  Not bad for breakfast!

In comparison, a medium McDonald’s McCafé chocolate shake has 1 gram of dietary fiber, 90 grams of sugar, and 630 total calories.

The choice is yours.