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We picked up Valentine (the 10-year-old orphan from Eastern Europe we’re hosting for the summer, not his real name) from the airport on Tuesday afternoon, on our way back from a two-night trip to Ontario in our RV. It was Clara’s first trip in the RV, and unfortunately, she was not a happy camper.  She had a hard time going to sleep in a strange place, so her nap schedule and bedtime were completely disrupted.  There wasn’t enough space in the RV for her porta-crib, so we put her on the big bed between Don and me.  We don’t normally co-sleep, so that made it harder for us to get a good night’s rest.  All this to say, I was not exactly well-rested when we picked up Valentine, and when we got home we had all the unpacking and laundry and stuff to do from coming home from a trip.  It was not the ideal situation, but with everything else going on, it was the only time we could squeeze in a trip to Canada before Valentine came (he’s not allowed to leave the United States while he’s with us; he has a single-entry visa).

2.  Although I would have liked to have taken a day off to get caught up, I figured it would be best to jump right into our summer weekday routine to set appropriate expectations for all the boys. Thus we started “summer lessons” on Wednesday.  During Clara’s morning nap, we had “together time” with a song, a prayer, a short Bible story, and a nursery rhyme (it’s quick—I don’t want to bore Valentine because I know he doesn’t understand most of it).  Then Peter and Simon went to another room and Peter read the first chapter of A Bear Called Paddington out loud to Simon.  Meanwhile, I read Where Is the Green Sheep? to Valentine, pointing and using gestures to clarify the important vocabulary words.  He laughed at some of the pictures.  After that, I introduced the first two phonics flash cards and he practiced the sounds, then I showed him how to write the letters and he practiced writing them.  I had debated whether or not to work on reading with him; I think improving his oral English is more important, but for a small investment of time, I think it’s worth building a foundation for reading in English.  That was it for lessons for the day for Valentine; Peter and Simon had a couple other things to do, but everything was done before Clara woke up from her nap except for Peter’s saxophone practice.  Yesterday was much the same; we re-read Where Is the Green Sheep?, reviewed Wednesday’s phonics flash cards and added the next two, and practiced writing the new letters along with a review of the first two.  I also taught the subject pronouns “I” and “you” and used a PowerPoint presentation with eye-catching photos (adapted from one that I made when I was a French teacher) to introduce ten useful verbs.  We had fun acting out “I eat”, “you drink”, “I play”, and others.

3.  On Wednesday, I made a point to stay home during the day to give Valentine time to settle in. He had fun playing with our toys (we have lots of toys!).  His favorites so far seem to be the Nerf guns and the Hexbugs.  After dinner, we went for a walk to a nearby lake.  On the way, we saw a turtle laying eggs.  We also found several holes littered with empty turtle eggs and a turtle that had been run over.  Valentine found a frog and we saw a fish that someone had just caught.  We were buzzed by innumerable dragonflies.  Valentine’s orphanage is in a city, so he probably hasn’t had many opportunities to experience nature like this.

4.  Yesterday, I took Valentine shopping. We were told to expect him to bring little or no clothing besides what he was wearing.  He actually brought a backpack with more than we expected, though still not much.  Fortunately, we are able to mostly outfit him with hand-me-downs from Peter.  A friend generously gave us $100 to purchase the clothing items he still needed, along with other things.  We bought underwear, socks, shoes (he came wearing sandals), and a matching swimsuit/swim shirt set.  I gave him 3-4 choices for each item and he enjoyed picking which color/design.  He asked me (through pointing and making begging/praying hands) for a Lego set, a fidget spinner, and candy in the check-out lane, but didn’t seem upset when I said no.  Our hosting organization stresses the importance of not spoiling the kids during their first week so as not to set up an expectation for the rest of the hosting period.  Besides that, because he’s limited to an airplane carry-on in what he can take back with him (and is expected to return with the clothes he brought), we’re planning to focus on giving him experiences rather than “stuff.”

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5.  Communication is limited, but we’re getting by. My cheat-sheet definitely helps.  The visual display I made for the morning routine (eat breakfast, get dressed, brush teeth, etc) is handy—I can just point to a picture instead of trying to pantomime everything, and I saw Valentine looking at it on his own to remind himself what to do.  Google Translate has been useful for things that are harder to act out (like, “You can play outside when you want, but tell me before you go and don’t go beyond the white fence.”)  Unfortunately, our internet has been excruciatingly slow for the last couple days, which makes Google Translate hard to use.  The boys are getting along well; you don’t need language to make funny faces, poke someone, steal their pillow, shoot Nerf guns, clown around, play tag, race toy cars, or lots of other things that boys like to do.

6.  We set Valentine up on our Wii; Peter helped him make a Mii and we registered him on Wii Fit Plus. That was my surreptitious way of finding out his height and weight.  I looked them up on a CDC growth chart; his height would be at the 50th percentile for a boy who is about 8 years and 3 months old.  I’ve heard from a few different people that the kids from the orphanages in his country tend to be about the size of American kids who are two years younger; Valentine is 10 years old so that seems accurate.

7.  After three biological kids and a developmentally delayed 3-year-old foster child, it’s kind of nice to add a child to the family who is already potty-trained.  🙂

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I decided to do a themed 7 Quick Takes this week: “Why Next Year Will be the Best Year of Homeschooling Yet” (or, “Why I Think Homeschooling Peter Will Work This Time When I Gave Up in Frustration and Enrolled Him in School in March Two Years Ago”).

For those who don’t know, I have been homeschooling my son Simon for the past two years (preschool and junior kindergarten); he will be in kindergarten next year.   I homeschooled Peter for grade 3 and most of grade 4 before giving up and sending him to public school because I was completely burnt out.  We are going to try again next year, when he will be in grade 7.  Here’s why I think it will work this time:

  1.  I have read several books that have changed my perspective, and I think the insights I’ve gained will help me keep a better attitude when the going gets rough.  In particular, I was inspired by Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté’s Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers.  As a former high school teacher, their descriptions of the dangers of peer orientation brought back vivid memories of former students and situations.  I am now consciously aware that while getting schoolwork and chores done is important, maintaining a healthy relationship with my kids is more important.  Although I do slip sometimes when I’m tired and frustrated, I’ve gotten reasonably good at using techniques from Hold On to Your Kids and No-Drama Discipline by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson, which takes a similar approach.  Finally, I also bought and read Sarah Mackenzie’s Teaching from Rest: A Homeschooler’s Guide to Unshakeable Peace.  It’s a short book and an easy read, but very apropos.  I expect to flip through it for inspiration at challenging times during the school year.
  2. My spiritual life is in better shape.  A stronger relationship with God makes it easier for me to find the strength, peace, patience, endurance, et cetera that I need to successfully spend a lot of time with my kids.  One of the resources that has been most helpful to me is reading Regnum Christi’s daily meditations.
  3. I am going to use a more flexible approach in scheduling.  When I homeschooled Peter previously, I made a complicated chart every week with every assignment for every subject for each day.  When life happened, as it does–when someone had a dentist appointment or got sick or there was some special event going on–and we couldn’t finish all of the assignments for a day, it would throw everything off.  This time, I’m going to set up some basic routines; for example, reading, writing, and math will happen every day, while science and history will alternate.  Each subject will be scheduled separately, so if we miss a day in one subject, we’ll just pick up with it where we left off and it won’t affect the schedule for the other subjects.
  4. I’m going to put the boys to work around the house.  Peter did have chores to do before, but now that he’s older, he can do more.  Simon also can do some useful chores now.  The work they do will help lighten my load so that I have the time and energy to instruct and supervise them.  I’m also going to try off-loading some of Simon’s read-alouds to Peter.  I figure that it’s a positive way for the brothers to spend time together, reading aloud is a good experience for Peter, and it will save me some time.  I will still do some read-alouds with Simon because it’s one of my favorite parts of homeschooling and I don’t want to miss out on it.
  5. I am streamlining the curriculum.  I pared my subject list for Peter down to what I felt was the bare minimum.  Then, after reflecting on my mission and vision for homeschooling, I carefully added in only two other subjects, both of which will be done for less than half the year.  In addition, I’m integrating several subjects.  For example, not only will Peter’s literature selections be coordinated with his history/geography studies, but about a third of them will be in French.  A good chunk of Simon’s read-aloud and science books will be in French.
  6. I’m going to be using some great curriculum resources.  I won’t go into details now (maybe I’ll do a post around the beginning of the school year), but I am looking forward to using some exciting new materials for both boys as well as some tried-and-true materials with Simon (I’m enjoying homeschooling for the second time around, getting to repeat the good stuff and replace the stuff I didn’t care for as much).  Of course, every year I’m enthusiastic about the resources I’m planning to use and sometimes I end up disappointed once we get into them; we’ll have to see how they go.
  7. Finally, I have gotten better at self-care.  I recognize when I’m starting to get run-down and I take steps to get back on track.  I know that when I get really tired, I feel sad, so I have learned to tell myself not wallow in my sadness when the real problem is that I’m tired.  I know what kinds of activities rejuvenate me and I find time for them at least semi-regularly.  On the whole, I’ve been eating better and doing a better job of not staying up too late, so I have more energy and don’t get run down as often.

And that’s my first themed 7 Takes!  Maybe it would have been better to write at the beginning of next school year, but all these thoughts have been bouncing around in my head since we decided we would homeschool Peter again, so it feels good to get them down in writing.  Perhaps it will be useful to look back at this post in a few months when the new school year is getting underway.

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  1. A hospital hand-out on “Laceration Care, Pediatric” was not on my reading list for the week, but unfortunately, it was thrust upon me.  After a delicious Mother’s Day dinner of chicken marsala cooked by my husband, we decided to go for a family walk/bike ride.  The boys rode their bikes ahead (Simon’s first time riding on the road, only allowed because we were supervising) while Don and I walked with Clara in the stroller.  The boys stopped and were climbing on some large rocks while they waited for us to catch up.  Simon fell and cut his hand on a piece of broken glass, thus winning a trip to the ER, where he got three stitches in his right palm.  😦
  2. So Monday, I had the joy of a large pile of dishes left over from Don cooking chicken marsala (he would have washed them, but he took Simon to the hospital).  I also had the joy of spending the day with a cranky Simon, who was up way too late (even in a small town, an emergency room visit is never quick) and was frustrated by not being able to use his right hand.  It was not a fun day.  Then Clara was inexplicably up twice during the night (she has been sleeping through the night regularly for months now), so I was exhausted on Tuesday and barely made it through my weekly grocery shopping.
  3. Let’s move on to some happier news.  Today was Simon’s last day of homeschool junior kindergarten!  It’s been a wonderful year and I’m proud of what he’s learned.  When we started in September, I wasn’t sure how well I was going to be able to homeschool with a baby, but it has actually gone very smoothly.  Now we transition to “summer lessons” (much lighter than during the school year, focusing on maintaining literacy, math, and French skills).
  4. Peter has only 14 days of school left before he’s done with grade 6.  He will do summer lessons also; he’s done them since he was in preschool, so he accepts that they’re just part of his life.  Then he will be homeschooled next year for grade 7.  He hasn’t been homeschooled since grade 4, so homeschooling for middle school will be a new adventure.
  5. I am about to finish something also.  Over two years ago (Palm Sunday 2015), I started a one-year Bible reading plan (not the whole Bible, just selected verses/passages, but 52 weeks’ worth of daily readings).  I fell off the bandwagon many times, sometimes for months at a time, but I never gave up.  Tomorrow is my last day!
  6. Don and Peter are gone to the Dayton Hamvention, the world’s largest gathering of ham radio operators.  I haven’t been since I was a teenager, but Don has attended many times, and Peter went last year for the first time.  Maybe in a few more years, we’ll make a family trip out of it.
  7. I got a call from our optometrist.  He will donate an eye exam and a pair of glasses (if needed) to “Valentine” (not his real name), the orphan from Eastern Europe that we’ll be hosting this summer.  Valentine has an appointment scheduled for mid-July.

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  1. I may be in the minority here, but I actually like Monday mornings.  It’s a relief to get back to the routine and structure of weekdays after the relative lack of structure on the weekends.  Don’t get me wrong–I like weekends too and look forward to them every week, but I wouldn’t want every day to be like the weekend.  (Yes, I know it’s Friday, but I think about this every Monday and wanted to share, and it didn’t seem worth an entire post.)
  2. Simon has one more week of junior kindergarten and then we’ll be done homeschooling for this school year.  Three weeks after that, Peter will be done with school not just for this school year, but for who knows how long, because we’re planning to homeschool him again next school year.  A week and a half after that, the 10-year-old orphan boy we’re hosting from Eastern Europe will arrive.  I’m doing my best to be prepared, but I must admit that I’m a little nervous about how we will all adjust to these changes.
  3.  “The orphan we’re hosting” is lengthy and impersonal, so henceforth, I will refer to him on my blog by the pseudonym Valentine.  (I’m not sharing personally identifying information about him on my blog, which is why I’m not using his real name.)
  4. Our dentist has agreed to donate his services to Valentine.  I’ve heard multiple stories about children hosted/adopted from his country needing dental work as they don’t get regular dental care in the orphanages, so I am glad we will be able to do that for him while he’s here.  Our optometrist is on vacation, so I don’t have an answer from him yet.
  5. The only real department store in our area is going out of business, so I made myself go to take advantage of the clearance prices.  I bought a pair of blue jeans and a pair of dress pants, so I am no longer in the wardrobe crisis of not having a single decent-looking pair of pants that fit.  The blue jean selection was overwhelming–so many sizes, leg styles, fits, colors!  I just picked a pair that sounded around my size and style and figured I would try them on and then go from there.  They fit great and I liked them!  I felt like I had taken Felix felicis.  Unfortunately, it was the only pair of jeans in the store in that size and style, and since they were going out of business, I couldn’t exactly ask them to order me more.
  6. Simon has pretty much got the hang of riding his bike without training wheels on our gravel/dirt driveway.  The problem now is that we live out in the country and there are no sidewalks for him to ride on, but we aren’t comfortable having him ride on the road yet.  I plan to drive him to a bike path in town one of these days, but we haven’t gotten there yet.
  7. I’ve been enjoying planning homeschool curriculum for next school year.  I have a generous budget to work with, which is wonderfully liberating.  I’m planning to buy a number of French-language resources that I wouldn’t have considered purchasing in the past because the cost adds up fast.  I’m looking forward to doing our best year of bilingual homeschooling yet.

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  1. I haven’t done a 7 Quick Takes post since 2013 (not since it moved from Conversion Diary to This Ain’t the Lyceum), but today is the day I decided to jump back into it.
  2. Peter played with the 6th grade band in his school’s spring concert on Wednesday evening.  I love hearing school bands (especially marching bands)–I’m just so proud of all the kids for working together and making beautiful music.  I enjoyed the concert, but I didn’t enjoy the aftermath.  The concert didn’t end until a quarter after eight, and by the time we got ourselves together and got home, it was a quarter to nine.  Clara usually goes to bed between 7 and 7:30 and Simon goes to bed around 8.  Both were very tired and Simon was melting down because we didn’t stay for the reception afterwards; he wanted to eat treats.  Peter was disappointed that we didn’t stay because he wanted to hang out with his friends.Band concert
  3. While Peter was all dressed up for the concert, I insisted that we take some pictures of him.  It was long overdue; we didn’t have any good pictures of him taken since the fall of 2014.Peter April 2017
  4. Yesterday (Thursday), the day after the concert, there was more unpleasant aftermath.  Clara, who usually wakes up around 6-6:30 am, slept until 8:30 because she had been up so late.  That wouldn’t have been a problem except that she had a doctor’s appointment (9 month check-up) at 11, and there wasn’t enough time to squeeze in a morning nap before then.  We had to wait for a ridiculously long time at the doctor’s office, as usual, so she was overtired and not at all impressed with the strange woman trying to put things in her ears and manipulate her legs.  She was in full meltdown mode by the time we got home.  Such fun.  😦
  5. All the paperwork and major organizational details are taken care of for the orphan we’re hosting from Eastern Europe this summer, which is a relief to me, as they have taken up a lot of my time and energy lately.  The application, fees, social worker visit/report, background checks, and flight reservations are all done.  He will be arriving in NYC with a group of children on a Sunday afternoon in June.  Because most airlines don’t allow unaccompanied minors on the last flight of the day to anywhere (so they don’t get stuck overnight if it gets cancelled), the closest we could get him to our house if he flew out Sunday evening was Minneapolis, which is about a 6 1/2 hour drive each way from our house.  Fortunately, the hosting organization was able to put us in touch with a family in NYC who will pick him up from the airport on Sunday afternoon and put him on a plane for us on Tuesday morning (their schedule wouldn’t allow them to take him to the airport Monday before 3 pm, but then we ran into the same problem with the last connecting flights of the day, so Tuesday it is).  He will fly as an unaccompanied minor from NYC to Minneapolis, then to a city that’s about two hours from us, arriving mid-afternoon.  Unfortunately, he can’t fly into the airport that’s 5 minutes from our house because only one commercial airline flies there and they only allow unaccompanied minors on non-stop flights (no changing planes), so the only way we could have done it was if we had someone meet him in Chicago and put him a plane there.  But four hours of driving round-trip sure beats 13 hours of driving to pick him up.
  6. Cinco de Mayo was totally not on my radar when I did meal planning for the week.  Thus, we’re having Indian butter chicken for dinner tonight.
  7. Our snow has finally all melted.  Simon is determined to learn to ride his bike without training wheels.  Despite the temperatures only being in the 40s and 50s, he has been practicing hard the last couple days.  I think he’ll have it down before long.

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